The problem is how you're asking them, but, well, if you don't agree based on what I've suggested (reading back your own posts) I imagine I'm not going to be able to convince you of that. (Notice that I'm not the only one confused by exactly what you're asking? No?) Anyway:
#2: Did I say that "any Superdrive" *wouldn't* work? No, I said that any drive capable of reading 800k disks should in principle work, so... what?
(At this point I just have to ask, just to be super-sure, are you clear on the difference between a "Superdrive" and a "normal" 1.44mb floppy drive? IE, a "Superdrive" is specifically a dual-mode disk drive PLUS an Apple controller that supports both the multiple speeds/GCR encoding of the original 400/800k Mac drives *AND* the standard 300RPM/MFM formatting used by conventional "industry standard" disks. Something like a USB floppy drive connected to an iMac is *not* a Superdrive even though it's a "floppy drive connected to a Mac".)
3: As mentioned *way* back, to use 3.5 disks on a IIe either requires a "Liron" controller card PLUS the A2M2053 "UniDisk" floppy drive, that *one* specific drive OR the drive you already have plus the "SuperDrive" controller (the description of this controller is right under 'Liron' in the previous link.). If you had one of those, yes, in principle you could write disks using your Mac that you could then use on your IIe. But you'll have to go shopping to get the missing parts if that's your plan.
(Of course, another thing you could go shopping for is a Super Serial card and avoid the problem with the audio jacks, but whatever.)
Good luck finding a solution for your mute IIe.