This is a real quandary.
It could be that on this particular ROM, that pin is different. Gamba's OS 8 on SE/30 page says that these ROMs are based on M5M27C101JK, which he said is EPROM. I'm not seeing a datasheet for that, or any that are similar enough, so just I'm assuming that this pin is a /WE. Most modern 32-pin ROMs have the same pinouts. I guess it's possible that this pin is NOT a /WE. These ROMs are ~20 years old. There is also another pin connected to a +5V supply that usually is NC. MAYBE this is actually /WE. I'm not sure.
I have 12 new Atmel AT29C020 ROMs coming, so whenever I can source some cheap DIP32 to PLCC32 adapters and get them from china, I'll give them a go onboard, with A19 patched in via wires. It'll be a cool experiment! The goal is a sampled startup sound from a Mac IIci.