Update, 

I went back to my motherboard, ...it is dirty and am carefully and slowly taking my time to clean it per suggestions from several members.  I am giving it the wash and scrub, so far it is looking really nice.  There was a lot of crap that came off the board and the contacts look really nice so far, ...I can see clearly between each on especially on the SCSI chip where it was previously almost a solid mass between each contact.  

Next I am going to spend an hour or so going over every single trace and connection w/ a high powered eye piece to look for any suspicious connections.

THEN it's lido if that doesn't get this computer happy to boot up.

(I have lido ready to go).