I think there are two relays. But the other is not as obvious to me.

I noticed then when pressing the power on the back, the relay click sounds different. Also if I press it after letting it sit, it may not actually click. If I hold it, the relay click gets louder after a couple, sorta ramps up. Then its steady until I wait a while again. Then pressing the rear power but may again not even click on first try.

The keyboard behaves differently. Its always a sharp relay click on the first go.

So I did jump the obvious looking relay (clear box) and it did not help. I did not install it in the box, but the fan on the supply would not spin up full. Just jump a little with each click as its always done.

Oh well, I will keep tinkering. I think if I bypass the other relay I may have an always on supply, but at least it would work for now. I am going to look for schematics and see what else I can find.