Recently, I've found out that my mother has been calling quite a few of my friends to find out what I do in my spare time (as well as other lifestyle decisions). Granted, she's suspected that I've been smoking (which is true), but that's pretty much all I've ever done. I'm still in college, but I'm 22 for Pete's sake. Should I confront her? What should I tell her? Please help!

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