I love Vanilla Sky, and I love the sound track as well. One of my friends that also really liked it said he thought it perfectly captured the feeling that you have as a bloke when you fall in love with someone. Maybe it's a non-action bloke-flick, as my girlfriend just thought it was lame.

Another film that I liked in a similar way (and love the sound track to as well), that left me feeling a bit like that was Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. And my girlfriend left the cinema thinking that was just average too